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Divorce is a Big Decision

Making the decision to divorce is a big decision. Wanting to get a divorce does not make you a bad person. Your spouse might be making you feel like you are but that doesn't make him or her a bad person either. You are both just simply human.

You are Here for a Reason!
You are here because divorce is on your mind for some reason or another. You are not happy with the status quo or you feel like are in limbo. You feel stuck, sad or depressed. No matter how confusing all of these feelings might be, what you do know is that you are not happy anymore.

Not knowing what is going to happen if you divorce is really tough and can contribute to making you even more unhappy. The stress you must be feeling about this secret burden you carry in your mind, especially if you haven't brought the subject of divorce out in the open yet with your spouse, can also be harsh.

Maybe what brought you to thinking about divorce is an event in your marriage like your spouse cheating and of course this has made you very angry along with a rainbow of other emotions.

My point here is a simple one. You are at a crossroads in your life and thinking about a decision that will not only affect the rest of your life but that of your spouse and your children if you have some. At some point during this process you will peak on about every emotion there is.

Don't let your Emotion Rule your Decisions!
It's been generally accepted in every facet of life that making decisions during heightened emotional times is a bad idea. Of course you might say that the emotions are actually responsible for bringing you to this point where you are thinking about whether or not to divorce. I would tend to disagree. If you look back at your marriage, it is much more likely that specific events and facts lead you to this point. Look at those events from the past and future when making any decision.

Emotions are what make us Human.
Yes that is very true, however, so does our intellect. Make any decision in your life not only with some emotions like compassion, but also use your logic and your intellect. Make clear decisions with a clear mind. Be the kind of person that looks at all the alternatives with an open mind. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgment and when you do make a decision, in this case divorce, you will know and feel confident that you are making the best possible decision.

 
 
 
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